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Successful New Year's Resolutions

  New Year's Resolutions are popular but there isn't much research about how well we do. Fortunately, Martin Oscarsson and his team studied over a thousand people to see what works. Not surprisingly, they found that the most popular resolutions were physical health, weight loss, and eating habits. Goals Make a Difference After a full year, the most successful group reached nearly 59%  compared to a group that reached about 47%. The difference between the groups was the type of goal. Successful people focused on goals they reached for (approach-oriented). The lower success people worked on goals to avoid something (avoidance oriented). Support  Helps The participants were randomly assigned to 3 groups. Group 1 did not receive support. Group 2 received some support-- they learned about the value of support and received information and guidance on achieving personal goals. Group 3 received extended support beyond that received in Group 2. For example, they learned more about...

Hell is for Real? Psychology and Belief in Hell

Psychology of Hell Bronzino, Descent of Christ into Limbo, 1552 A Christian nurse said she preferred to work with children because if they died they would go to heaven. An evangelical Christian chaplain explained he was ethically bound to minister to all persons regardless of their faith. He gave examples of being with people who were dying. I asked him how he handled a situation (given his belief about hell) that in a few hours a person would enter hell for eternity unless he made an attempt to offer salvation. He seemed genuinely perturbed by the question as he indeed believed in a literal hell for those who were not born again. MOST BELIEVE IN HELL According to Harris Interactive (2013, December 6), 58% of U S adults believe in hell (25% don’t and 18% aren’t sure). More Republicans (74%) than Democrats (53) believe in hell. (I am sure those affiliated with either party could make a lot of jokes about the political rift.) Of course, the polls d...